拿“习俗”说事（侯哥博客文选）
<P><FONT face=宋体 size=6> </FONT></P><P><FONT face=宋体 size=6> 兵是极受尊重的。当兵，曾是少年的梦。在我心中，兵庄重而近乎神圣，威严而近乎冷酷。</FONT></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman"> </SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">兵哥哥接连发来几篇帖子，赤裸裸地暴露了自己的感情，犹如打开春的大门，开启爱的秘密，完全是一付多情公子的面孔。兵哥哥也是人，是有思想有感情的男人，也有爱和被爱的欲望，发这样的帖子，自然也是真实情感的流露。赤裸裸地暴露思想，这样的暴露，只有在网上才能作到。</SPAN></P><P style="TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%">很多时候，我们都是紧锁心扉的。人在职场，面对领导，要保持距离；面对同事，会留有余地。即便在亲人面前，为人儿女，在父母面前；为人子孙，在长辈面前，也都会不自觉地顾及到自己的情感和地位的。从这层意义上说，社会上的人，无不生活在自己的社会角色中，很难回归到自然的自我。在网上，任思绪无拘无束地流淌，心情得到了放松。随着生活节奏的加快，人们无时不想放松身心。于是有专家提倡裸睡，有人喜欢裸泳。<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US"> </SPAN></SPAN></P><P> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">裸泳几十年前就已经有了，是在国外。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">年前，我曾经在悉尼见过，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">“Lady Bay Beach” (</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial">小姐湾海滩</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">)</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">是合法的天体海滩。<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #333333; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></P><P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #333333; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">外国已经有许多人正在裸泳着，我们身边已经有人敢于裸泳了，想必未来的人也是可以裸泳的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">……</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">只要别在怕伤</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">风化</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: Times New Roman; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" XML:LANG="EN-US">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">人的面前就行。在其他国家，裸泳已经成为一种能够让人们</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-hansi-font-family: Times New Roman; mso-bidi-font-family: Times New Roman">，接受的行为，在中国的文化传统下，目前还难以让人接受。</SPAN></SPAN></P><P style="TEXT-INDENT: 33pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%">在中国的传统习俗下，许多外来的东西，流行起来都要受到很大阻力的。喇叭裤、牛仔装、低胸装、吊带裙、露脐装、比基尼<SPAN lang=EN-US XML:LANG="EN-US">……都是在叫骂声中被接收了。再拿什么“习俗”来说事，就显得迂腐可笑。</SPAN></SPAN></P><P style="TEXT-INDENT: 33pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 170%">迂腐可笑的事有很多，在平常人，不足为怪。名人有时也闹笑话，曾几何时，一位大哲学家写了一本《辩证唯物主义与历史唯物主义》，把摇摆舞、电子音乐也说成西方资本主义的腐朽与堕落，在今天看来是否有点迂腐可笑呢？（侯哥博客）</SPAN></P><br><br>［此帖子已被 金鹿 在 2007-9-13 17:53:49 编辑过］ 我们身边已经有人敢于裸泳了.但只是没人的情况下. <FONT size=6><EM>本溪有个很偏僻的浴场，在“爱河”游泳馆附近，距“爱河”2公里左右，距市区15公里。这里除了个别打渔的以外，很少有人来。这里水深流急，由于是太子河上游，水质又非常好，成为本溪部分冬泳人的天然裸泳浴场，这里大约有20多人固定的、常年在此游泳，由于某种原因，先不发照片，请理解。</EM></FONT> <BR><P align=center><IMG src="/attachments/Upfiles/2007917102515348.gif"></P><BR><BR>
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